Hey, Rowdy Yates, cool your jets. I haven't missed anything about "We Are Family" and so on. And I didn't make any WWAMD reference -- when you "quote," you get BOGO.RhowdyRam02 wrote:WWAMD? Well he'd recruits rapists and thieves and hope for the best. Some people want to win at all costs, but that philosophy will get a hard pass from me.Running Ram wrote:I very much AGREE with this sentiment. And of course swabbers will think that makes me a Negative Nellie, I think very highly of DH in so many ways, but feel he has a hard time moving on from things, it's probably the same personality component that has him a bad rep with refs, Good call, bad call, play your game, nevermind just play your game. I did state in the past that I like his animation on the sidelines but I've grown tired of when it comes across like a tantrum or whining.bressler3south wrote:The biggest disappointment this year in my eyes was Coach Hurley's public grieving about E.C. Matthews' devastating injury. Coach Hurley lamented Matthews' situation, and what it meant to the team -- and moreover -- what it meant to him, to the point that as a leader, a coach, as "The Dad of HIs Basketball Family," he crumbled.
When there's a real tragedy or horrible news or a very, very bad blow dealt to a Family, it is the duty, the unceremonious obligation of One Person to Suck It Up and Let Everyone Know That Everything Will Be Okay, to reassure them, to salve their pain, their upset. That person knows inwardly that everything's not okay, but will do everything in his/her power to keep on the bravest face for everyone else.
One rallies those around by being The Pillar, the one everyone goes to in time of need.
Not the other way around.
And the reaction to E.C.'s injury was just not at all helpful in any way, to the point where one of the commentators during the TCU game commented on how devastated he was for Dan Hurley. Sure its bad, no matter how you slice it, but seriously E.C. is, as was stated, not the be all end all, this team is loaded with talent and should be 8-2 at very worst. Nevermind the excuses, they're more than sickening, from now on I just want to know WWAMD? of course Archie Miller is not the be all end all of coaches, but its just an example. I get it, Dan has done so much for the program and he excels in so many of the aspects needed to guide a successful program, that its hard to admit this stuff to ourselves, but lets get real here, we haven't had a season match the corresponding hyped pre-season once since DH arrived. Again the hype happens because DH does great work in so many ways, but he has to find a way to suck it up when he gets a lemon and still get the victory, or he'll never be a great college coach. I'm not suggesting throwing in the towel, I think DH could still become that great all around college coach, I am suggesting, though, that results speak for themselves.
And one thing you two are missing. Every recruit that comes in here talks about how this is a family, why do you think that is? I'd say it starts with the coach, and you can't just turn on and off personality traits. Saying he should handle himself like an army leader is a. ludicrous, and b. counterproductive. If the side effect to Dan turning his team into a family that rallies around each other is they get a little too down after losing their on court leader, I'll take it, because the rest of the time that philosophy is beneficial.
And before you make any character judgments about character judgments, maybe this will refresh your cross-circuited brain:
http://www.thestar.com/news/crime/2014/ ... court.html
Ooooh, forgot that one, didncha? You mean, like, gee, Coach Hurley can't predict the future?
Wow?
So, Rowdy, who would you want on YOUR FUCKING TEAM? A rapist or a murderer?
Me?
Neither.
Maybe a great kid.
Who would you want as a coach?
Miller or Hurley?
Me?
Hurley.
Doesn't mean I can't be disappointed, and if you can't understand that by now, too bad.
And again, the Winters reference was about leadership qualities, not war -- for which I already apologized if anyone was offended and didn't comprehend that it wasn't about war, but, ummmmm, l-e-a-d-e-r-s-h-i-p.